Thankful Thursday: Week 4

A few weeks ago, I planned to set aside every Thursday in November to share some of the many things I’m thankful for.  

You can read about Week 1 here, Week 2 here, and Week 3 here.

“Give us today our daily bread.”

Matthew 6:11

As I type these words, the smell of sweet potato pie and pumpkin crisp fresh from the oven is permeating throughout the entire house.  Those are two Thanksgiving traditions that I bless my family with.  That’s what I’m thankful for today…tradition.

Growing up in my household meant that we celebrated everything.  My mom celebrated big events (such as Thanksgiving, Christmas, Valentine’s Day and Easter) as well as smaller events (such as good grades on our report cards, special awards and milestones reached).  Celebrating these special moments are memories that I still hold dear today.  It’s only natural that I passed along these traditions to my own children.

As we prepare to celebrate Thanksgiving today, we will weave years of tradition into our festivities.  Our day began with a big breakfast that I prepare each year–bacon, eggs, breakfast potatoes, toast and juice.  Afterwards, my daughter and I baked 2 sweet potato pies and 2 pumpkin crisps.  Now we are relaxing until we head out to family dinner, which will include lots of laughter, games (and prizes!), good music, fellowship and of course, great food.

A few weeks ago, I read an article by Anne Lamott called “Counting Our Blessings“.  In the article, Lamott shared why she says grace before her meals.  I found the article to be very enlightening because saying grace seems like second nature to me.  It’s not something that I have to think about doing.  My husband and I have raised our children to say grace before their meals.  Whether you’re at the cafeteria table, the food court at the mall or at a friend’s house, we pause to thank the Lord for the food that He has provided for us.

As you gather around the Thanksgiving table today, be sure to pause to thank God for the delicious food you will consume.  Ask Him to not only bless the food but also the hands that prepared it.  Pray for those who are less fortunate than you.  Pray for those struggling with their first Thanksgiving without a loved one.  Ask God to bless the conversation and memories that you’ll share.  Enjoy making new memories while savoring honored traditions.  As a friend mentioned this morning, “Thanksgiving is what comes out of the heart…not the oven.”

Happy Thanksgiving!

Thankful Thursday: Week 3

A few weeks ago, I planned to set aside every Thursday in November to share some of the many things I’m thankful for.  You can read about Week 1 here and Week 2 here.

“I have found the one my soul loves.”

Song of Solomon 3:4

This weekend, my husband, Lance, and I will be celebrating our 17th wedding anniversary.  So, this week, I’d like to share with you why I am thankful for my husband.

Lance and I met 19 years ago while we were in college.  He was a junior; I was a freshman.  We were total opposites.  He was from the South; I was from the East Coast.  He was outgoing; I was more reserved.  He was very athletic; I was in the band.  It makes me believe that in some ways, opposites really do attract.

Over the years, our life together has been filled with highs and lows, blessings and heartaches.  Moving to a new state, moving to another state a few months later, children, losing a child, new jobs, losing jobs, death of beloved family members, health challenges, dreaming new dreams, seeing other dreams put on hold.

Despite it all, I would not want to have experienced all of that with anyone else but Lance.  Somehow, no matter what comes our way, life is so much better because I have him in my life.

As the scope of my ministry has expanded and I have taken on more projects, he has supported me every step of the way.  People have always said how awesome it is that Lance and I serve side by side.  (Just for the record, he is not on staff with me at our church.  However, he is my favorite volunteer!)  But side by side is the unspoken motto of our marriage.  We are partners in every sense of the word.

I am thankful for a husband who loves me, provides for me, listens to me, encourages me, challenges me, fights for me.  He is one of the greatest gifts that God has given me and for that, I am truly thankful.

Thankful Thursday: Week 2

A few weeks ago, I planned to set aside every Thursday in November to share some of the many things I’m thankful for.  You can read about Week 1 here

“Always be thankful.”

Colossians 3:15, NLT

Being more intentional about having an attitude of gratitude for the month of November has really been good for me.  During the daily grind, when things get frustrating or overwhelming, I say, “Be thankful.  Always be thankful.”  That puts things into perspective.

If you have been following me, you are aware that we launched a preteen ministry at our church this fall.  Naturally, this is something I’m thankful for.  I shared my thoughts about this over at FourFiveSix.  You can read about it here.

Is having an attitude of gratitude part of your daily life?  Let me know how by sharing below!

Thankful Thursdays: Week 1

“We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they are good for us–they help us learn to endure.  And endurance develops strength of character in us, and character strengthens our confident expectation of salvation.  And this expectation will not disappoint us.  For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love.  Romans 5:3-5 (NLT)

A few weeks ago, I planned to set aside every Thursday in November to share some of the many things I’m thankful for.  It is no coincidence that today, the first Thursday in November, I would initially struggle to find one thing to be thankful for.  You see, for the past two weeks, we’ve experienced setbacks of one kind or another.  This morning at a glance:  we overslept, rushed out the door to get my children to school on time (with 2 minutes to spare) and on my way to work, my van broke down (the third time in 2 weeks that something on the van has needed major repair).

Lately, it’s been feeling like one backwards step after another.  Today I felt like I reached my breaking point.  As I was about 1/4 way through the box of tissue in my van (waiting for the tow truck to arrive), I began to ask God why He continues to allow things like this to happen to me and my family.  Not that I was expected an audible answer.  I know that tests and trials are good for us (that’s what God’s Word says–and I believe it) but a series of tests and trials feels a little like, well, punishment.

After I had some time to reflect and allow the Holy Spirit to calm my nerves, I began to think about the many ways God has blessed me.  Today, I am thankful for Jesus.  I am thankful that He loves me more than I’ll ever know.  I am thankful that He sends gentle reminders through adversity that He’s there and still in control.  (He sent a very friendly tow truck driver to rescue me, family and friends offered to come and sit with me while I waited for the tow truck, my husband called me every 10 minutes to check in on me, and I was able to pull off of the main road and not block traffic.)  I am thankful for the promises of Scripture.  I am thankful that nothing can ever separate me from His love.  I am thankful that while situations change and tests come, He never changes.  I am thankful that while I don’t know “why”, He uses all things for my good.

What are you thankful for today?